Keep your family safe when something happens to you
Someday your family will have to manage without you. We'll help you get everything in place, so they're never left unprepared.
- Accounts
- Papers
- Wishes
- Who to call
I want to know my family will be safe if something happens to me.
If you died tomorrow, would your family know?
- Where's the original will??Nobody knowsWe note where it's kept and who can get it
- Who decides about your care??Nobody knowsWe check it's signed and easy to find
- Which bills are on autopay??Nobody knowsWe help you list every bill
- Is there life insurance??Nobody knowsWe help you list every policy
- Can anyone get into your phone??Nobody knowsWe help you add a legacy contact
- Who has the spare key??Nobody knowsWe note who has what
- Who do we call first??Nobody knowsWe build their call list
- What did you want for your funeral??Nobody knowsWe help you write it down
You've probably told them less than you think
of parents said they'd explained their plans. Most of their kids said they hadn't.
Fidelity, 2016of adults 50 to 80 hadn't put their medical wishes in writing.
University of Michigan, 2021of American adults have a will.
Caring.com, 2025Americans 65 and older live with Alzheimer's.
Alzheimer's Association, 2026How we help
Three steps, at your own pace.
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We show you what's missing
Start with a free check.
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We help you put it in place
Short sessions, one thing at a time.
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We help your family practice
They try it for real, and you see what works.
Everything we help you put in place
- Everything in one place
Accounts, papers and where they are
- Set up the official way
Apple, Google, Medicare and Social Security
- Two letters in your words
For if you can't decide, and for after
- A guide for each person
Their first steps, and only their part
- A practice run
Your family tries it for real
- A readiness score
See what works and what to fix
- A printed kit
Binder, fridge card and wallet cards
Complete plan - Ready every year
A fresh check every year
Your lawyer handles your will. Your passwords stay with you.
What your family gets
A short guide for each person you choose, and a report that shows what works.
David's guideIf Mom is in the hospital
From Margaret Ellis · Updated November 13, 2026
- Bring her health care proxyThe original is in the fireproof box in the hall closet.
- Call Dr. Lin's officeTell them which hospital she's in.
- Call Medicare at 1-800-633-4227You're on file, so they'll talk to you.
- Feed Biscuit twice a dayLinda next door has a spare key.
Readiness reportMargaret Ellis · November 13, 2026
Shared with David and Priya
- Original willDavid found it in the fireproof box.Tested
- Medicare can talk to DavidHe called, and they discussed a claim with him.Tested
- Apple Legacy ContactDavid and Priya are added.Set up
- Letter for after she diesMargaret is still writing it.Missing
The Ellis family is made up. Your guides and report use your own details. See the whole sample report
What people tell us
When I was diagnosed with dementia, this helped me get everything ready for my family.
It really helped my dad get things in order before he passed.
I'm only 42, but I want to know my family will be safe if something happens to me. That's why I use it.
You stay in charge
You choose who's included and what each person sees. We never ask for your passwords.
- David, your sonHospital and doctors
- Priya, your daughterPaying the bills
- Linda, next doorBiscuit and the spare key
Nobody sees your passwords, balances or account numbers.
Why we're called Plan Before You Die
The name is blunt on purpose. Planning early is one of the kindest things you can do for the people you love.
Our candle is the light you leave on, so your family can always find the way.
Questions people ask
I'm not good with computers. Can I still do this?
Yes. Each session is short, someone in your family can sit with you, and everything prints.
I already have a will. Isn't that enough?
No. A will only works after a death. It does nothing for your bills, your doctors or Medicare while you're alive and need help.
Do you write wills or powers of attorney?
No. We're not a law firm. We check that you have them and that your family can find them, and tell you what to ask your lawyer.
Do you need my passwords?
No. We never ask for them, and your plan never stores them.
Will my kids see my bank balances?
No. Each person sees a short guide to their own part. Nobody sees balances or account numbers.
I've just had a hard diagnosis. Is it too late?
No. Start with the most urgent parts, like who can speak for you and where your papers are, while you can still make every choice yourself.
Can I set this up for my mom or dad?
Yes. Your parent owns the plan and decides who's included. Start by sending them our letter for bringing it up.
How much does it cost?
The readiness check is free. You'll find plans and prices on the pricing page.
Get your family ready
We'll help you, one step at a time.